Protecting Your Mental Health: Finding Peace in Small Rituals

Life can feel like a whirlwind. Too many tasks, too many tabs open in your brain, and not enough hours in the day. If you’ve ever found yourself overwhelmed, stretched thin, or simply emotionally tired, you’re not alone.

Protecting your mental health isn’t just a nice idea. It’s essential.

Mental health and physical health are deeply connected. When your mind is overwhelmed, your body feels it too. Stress can show up as fatigue, tension, digestive issues, or trouble sleeping. Taking care of your mental well-being is also a powerful act of physical self care.

The good news is that caring for your mental health doesn’t have to be big or dramatic. Sometimes it’s found in the quiet, intentional rituals we create for ourselves. For me, that’s baking and tending to my aeroponic garden; simple daily practices that help me feel calm, present, and in control.

I gather my ingredients, line up my bowls and measuring cups, and follow a recipe. Step by step, I bring order out of chaos. The rhythm of stirring, shaping, and waiting gives my mind room to breathe. Gardening grounds me. I check on my plants, adjust the water, ph balance, trim the leaves, and watch growth happen in real time. It’s a gentle reminder that healing doesn’t have to be loud or fast. It just has to be steady.

When I really need to recharge, my happy places are the beach and the mountains. There’s something about the sound of waves or the stillness of high trees that reminds me who I am beneath all the noise.

You might not be a baker or a gardener, and maybe you live far from the ocean or mountains. That’s okay. The key is finding your thing. A small, steady ritual that helps you come back to yourself when everything feels like too much. Maybe it’s journaling, painting, walking, or simply sitting quietly with a warm drink.

Protecting your mental health is about doing what matters.

What grounds you, soothes you, and reminds you that you are still here. Still growing. Still worthy of care.

You deserve peace. You deserve small moments of joy.

Carrot Cake

I don’t know why springtime and Easter scream “carrot cake” to me. Maybe it’s the association between bunnies and carrots? Nevertheless, carrot cake ranks in my top 5 favorite desserts. Banana cake is my all time fav, but that’s a different recipe for another day. I don’t usually tell people this is a plant based or vegan cake because when they hear that, they assume it’s going to be dry and have no flavor and this cake is anything but that! You can easily make this gluten free with all oat flour or a mixture of flours, I’ve done it and it comes out well but I like the texture of this one a little better. You can add 1/2-1 cup of raisins if you’d like. I don’t. For me, raisins belong in oatmeal cookies and that’s about it. I hope you love it and/or it brings back happy memories….carrot cake was all rage in the ‘70’s & ‘80’s!

Ingredients:

2 cups shredded carrots

1/2 cup shredded coconut

1 cup drained crushed pineapple (save the juice)

1 cup nuts (walnuts or pecans)

1 cup unbleached flour 

1 cup whole wheat pastry flour

1 cup oat flour 

1 tablespoon ground cinnamon

1/2 teaspoon ginger

1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice

1 teaspoon baking soda 

2 teaspoon baking powder 

1 teaspoon salt 

1 cup organic sugar or coconut sugar 

1 cup organic brown sugar

3 flax ‘eggs’ 

1/2 cup avocado oil or melted coconut oil

1/2 cup applesauce

1 tsp orange zest (optional)

2 teaspoons vanilla extract 

2 cups shredded carrots 

1 cup chopped walnuts or pecans

Ingredients for the frosting:

1 cup (8 ounces) vegan cream cheese, room temperature

1/2 cup vegan butter, room temperature

4 cups powdered sugar, (approximately, you may need a bit less or a bit more depending on humidity, altitude & temperature)

1 tsp vanilla extract

a pinch of salt

a pinch of orange rind (optional)

Drained pineapple juice

Garnish with chopped nuts and carrot ribbons or shredded carrots, if desired

Directions for the frosting:

Beat the butter (room temperature) until creamy. Add the plant based cream cheese (Toffuti, Miyoko’s, Kitehill or Trader Joe’s brands are all good), add the vanilla extract and orange zest (optional). Beat until creamed with the butter. Add the powdered sugar 1 cup at a time, until you have the desired consistency, it it’s too thick add some the drained pineapple juice 1 tsp at a time, if it’s too thin add a bit more powdered sugar. Refrigerate until ready to use.

Directions for the cake:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Lightly grease two 9 inch cake pans (I use coconut oil spray) or 24 muffin tins 

For the flax ‘eggs’ use 1 Tbsp flax meal and 3 Tbsp of water for each ‘egg’ (you can grind the seeds in a food processor). You can also use an egg replacer or chia ‘eggs’. Mix the flax and water and set aside until it’s a gelatinous texture.

In large bowl, combine flour, cinnamon, baking soda, baking powder and salt, mix well. In separate bowl, combine sugar and flax ‘eggs’ beat until well blended. Add oil and vanilla; beat until combined. Stir in carrots. Add flour mixture; stir just until moistened. Pour evenly into cake pans or muffin tins, with muffin liners. Bake in preheated oven for 40-45 minutes or until a toothpick comes out clean. For muffins bake 20-22 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean. Cool in pans for 10 minutes.

Remove cake from pans; cool completely on wire rack, frost, sprinkle with nuts and ribbons of carrots if desired and, Enjoy!

Vegan Persimmon Pudding

This is one of my favorite desserts, it just tastes like Christmas to me. It’s one of the first desserts beyond sugar cookies I learned to make back in high school. You have to have super ripe and squishy persimmons for this. I get mine from the farmers market, they save them for me every year. I used walnuts but you could also use pecans. If you like raisins you could add those as well. For the pulp I strained the persimmons through a colander into a large bowl. (Remember to compost the skins and stems).

Persimmon pudding

2 cups of persimmon pulp

3 egg replacement (I used Follow Your Heart’s)

1 1/4 cup sugar

1 tsp baking powder

1 tsp baking soda

1/2 tsp salt

2 tsp cinnamon

1 tsp ginger

1/2 nutmeg (or pumpkin pie spice)

1/2 cup melted vegan butter

2 1/2 cups almond or cashew milk

1 1/2 cup whole wheat or unbleached flour

1 cup chopped nuts

Preheat oven to 325 degrees.  In a large bowl add the egg replacement to the persimmon pulp, whisk in the sugar.  Add baking powder, soda, salt and spices.  Pour in melted vegan butter, stir & pour in the almond milk.  The mixture will be sort of soupy, whisk in flour, fold in chopped nuts.  Pour into a greased 9 X 13 pan.  Bake for 1 hour or until knife comes out clean.  Serve warm or room temperature with vegan whipped cream.

Chocolate Zucchini Bread

Zucchini is one of the most versatile vegetables. I’ve had so much from my garden this summer that I’ve been putting it in everything! From zoodles, savory zucchini pancakes, soups, shredded in salads, muffins and bread. I revamped my chocolate zucchini bread so it’s now completely plant based. You can use one kind of flour or a combination like I did. I’ve made it gluten free many times by substituting the unbleached and whole wheat flour for all oat flour or 1/2 oat and 1/2 buckwheat or rice flour. (Buckwheat is a seed, not a grain. Quinoa is another seed that’s often mistaken for a grain). My favorite way to eat this is with a little vegan cream cheese or butter.

Chocolate Zucchini Bread

1 cup unbleached flour 

1 cup whole wheat pastry flour

1 cup oat flour

1/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder 

1 tablespoon ground cinnamon 

1 teaspoon baking soda 

2 teaspoon baking powder 

1 teaspoon salt 

3/4 cup white or raw sugar 

3/4 cup brown sugar

3 flax ‘eggs’ 

1/2 cup avocado oil 

1/2 cup applesauce

2 teaspoons vanilla extract 

2 1/2 cups shredded zucchini 

1 cup chopped walnuts or pecans

1 cup semisweet chocolate chips 

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Lightly grease two 9x5 inch loaf pans or 24 muffin tins 

For the flax ‘eggs’ use 1 Tbsp flax meal and 3 Tbsp of water for each ‘egg’ (you can grind the seeds in a food processor). You can also use an egg replacer or chia ‘eggs’. Mix the flax meal with water and set aside until it’s a gelatinous texture.

In large bowl, combine flour, sugar, brown sugar, cocoa, cinnamon, baking soda, baking powder and salt. Once flax ‘eggs’ have reached a gelatinous texture, start adding the wet ingredients. Make a ‘well’ in the middle of the dry ingredients. Add flax egg, oil, apple sauce, vanilla and shredded zucchini. Mix until combined. Add the nuts and chocolate chips. Spoon evenly into loaf pans or muffin tins.

Bake in preheated oven for 45 to 50 minutes, for muffins bake 20 to 25 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean. Cool in pans for 10 minutes. Remove bread from pans; cool completely on wire rack. Enjoy!